Condolence & Memory Journal

Thinking of you Helen.....

Posted by Leslie Burton - Bostom, MA - Family Friend   May 11, 2019

To my lovely, wonderful, beautiful sister--Kim Alfonso said it best that you were "a diamond in the sand". The loss of Auntie Jeannie (our sister) and Helen, your mother within six days was overwhelming. For: JJ and James: I was recuperating from three surgeries at the time of my sister's and your devoted mother's passing. My heart broke even more when I could not attend services. I just think of how she was her whole life with her family--terrific! I didn't have your address to send you a letter. This picture of her showcases her wonderful spirit. She was a lot of fun growing up and was a great host for all of her family. LOVE TO YOU AND JAMES, AUNTIE Chrissie

Posted by Christine Spacone - Cambridge, MA   November 19, 2018

My heartfelt condolences to the entire Santilli family on the loss of Helen. Losing a loved one is one of the greatest pains a family can go through. May you let gods promise in Hosea 13:14 give you peace comfort and a hope.
Tammy NY

Posted by A friend   June 20, 2018


Helen was an unforgettable and beautiful lady. I had the pleasure of knowing her well and traveling with her and husband. She will be missed by everyone the knew her. She was truly a diamond in the sand and I loved her dearly. My mother, Joann Alfonso passed just two months before Helen and they were best of friends. She was kind, very funny, and loving to all!!!! Rest in heaven with mom!

Posted by Kim Alfonso - Las Vegas, NV   June 10, 2018

My deepest condolences to the family, may you find comfort and strength from the God of all comfort in this difficult time (Isiah 26:19)

Posted by A friend   May 28, 2018


Posted by D Volpe - Brockton, MA   May 23, 2018

I am so sorry to hear she was a great person and was always very nice to me

Posted by Michael Patten - Coworker   May 22, 2018

I was just told of your passing today and I felt so hurt that I, or my family, was not in attendance for your wake. We certainly would have been if we knew. I will always remember you, Helen, as a very classy, devoted, sensitive, loving, thoughtful, and a remarkable woman. You carried yourself with dignity. You were more than kind and warm to me, my family, and my dear husband, John. You so cherished your two sons, JJ and James. Oh, how you loved them....There wasn't anything you wouldn't have done for them. Of course, you will be so missed by them and all who knew you. I feel so, so sad that I was not there to let your family know my tributes towards you. You will always be, THAT PRETTY, THOUGHTFUL CHARMING LADY. I am so sorry, so sorry...... Sonnie Dreystadt

Posted by Sonnie Dreystadt - NORTH EASTON, MA - Friend   May 22, 2018

James & JJ I am very sorry to hear about the passing of your Mom. My thoughts are with you and your Family

Posted by Thomas Cudworth - Assonet, MA   May 19, 2018


JJ & James,
so shocked to hear the news about your Mom .Our deepest sympathy may god rest her soul in peace as she was such a loving and caring person. she will be missed . Both of you are in my thoughts and prayers . Hugs and Love.
August & Uma

Posted by August & Uma Auditya - Anthem, AZ - Friend   May 16, 2018

May Helen Rest In Peace. She will always be in your hearts. Every minute..every day...

Posted by Nicholas Santilli - family   May 15, 2018

Our deepest sympathy on your Mother's passing. She was a caring and elegant woman.
Roberta and Paul Leary

Posted by Roberta Leary - Milton, MA - Friend   May 15, 2018

Sorry to hear the sad news, Helen was a very caring women she would always do anything for you she will be deeply missed, God bless her.

Posted by Wayne and Linda Hagman - Bridgewater, MA   May 15, 2018

Jamie and JJ. I was so sorry to hear about Mom. She will always be with you and watch over you. May her memory be eternal.

Posted by Cathy Loiacono - Taunton, MA   May 14, 2018

The loss of a Mother can never be replace, but the love of a Mother can never
be lost. With deepest sympathy on the loss of your Mom.

Jo-Ann Bray Kingston, MA

Posted by Jo-Ann Bray - Kingston, MA - Friend   May 14, 2018


JJ and James,
I am so sorry to hear of your Mother's passing. It was quite a shock. Just know in your hearts that you were the sunshine in Helen's days, and why she always had a smile on her face. She will be missed so.

Posted by Nancy Smart - Brockton, MA - Friend   May 14, 2018


John, J.J., and James,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Helen was such a sweetheart. She brightened my day every time she came in. I know you will miss her. I will be thinking of you.
Love you guys, take care,

Posted by MELISSA Palanza - MANSFIELD, MA - Friend   May 14, 2018

John Jr. I am so sorry to see of your mother's passing. Please accept my deepest sympathy to you and your family.

Posted by Carol Mathews - East Bridgewater, MA   May 14, 2018

Posted by Carol Mathews - East Bridgewater, MA   May 14, 2018